5 Signs That Tell Your Partner You’re Cheating!

Whatever your reason for having an affair while you in a relationship – if you are here – it means you probably don't want to lose your main relationship to the affair – so you need to exercise some common sense here, okay?

 

Here's a few tips shared by readers over the years: 

1. You're suddenly working late – when you never have before. Look, if you think you want to fool around in the future – plan for it in advance. Set up the scenario by taking on a new project at work, joining a bowling league, ANYTHING that would make a later than normal evening okay. Keep up the legitimate late night for a while, occasionally adding an extra one – even if you spend it at the library. The point is to create a pattern that is legitimate now – and will be available when you need it later.

2. New clothes / new styles / new haircut. Again – don't change anything unless you want to change spouses and houses too. Yes, your new lover might think you would look awesome in silk boxers but it will be noticed – and not favorably – at home.

3. Sexy undergarments. If you suddenly change from from wearing boxers to bikini briefs, you just blew your situation wide open. Ladies – wearing stockings and garter belts are soooo sexy – but if your partner of 20 years has never seen you in anything other than pantyhose…..

4. Fresh scents. If your spouse has worn the same cologne or perfume for years and decides to go with something new and trendy, this may be an attempt to become more desirable – to someone other than you. 

5. Change in Your Normal Hygiene Habits/Routines. More frequent showers, changing soaps and shampoos for no apparent reason, and carrying breath mints around after avoiding them like the plague for years means something is probably up. Shaving too frequently is often a big giveaway with guys – if you normally come home with a 'five o'clock' shadow – and suddenly start coming home clean shaven after a stop in the exec washroom Aktsionemy Joint Stock Public Company before hooking up with your amour…..the jig is up!

 

More helpful hints coming soon, sweet things!